Jamz :
Dear Chilakak,
I recently met a guy in a club and was interested in him. He works there. During one of his breaks, he came over to my table for a chat where my friends dropped hints of my interest. We exchanged numbers and I texted him a few days later asking him out.
He replied he was busy and will text me back later in the week. I waited. He hasn’t text me yet. I feel like I’m sure a failure. Can you help me please?
IMHO :
Dear Jamz,
Don’t worry about it. Just be cool. Go back to the club with your bunch of friends. Have fun. Don’t establish eye contact with him. Pretend his actions has no effect on you.
Jamz :
Dear Chilakak,
Thank you. He approached us and apologised for not replying citing work commitment. We had some fun dancing and drinking. But at one part, he kissed me despite me saying “NO!”. It was a passionate kiss even though I kept pushing him off. He thought I was just playing. We left it at that and I left with my friends. The next day, I texted him saying I was not comfortable with his actions and wanted to get to know him better before things proceed that far. I’m not the usual innocent naive type of girl. Believe me, I’ve put it out far sooner before. But I’m a changed person now. I need a proper relationship. Help…
IMHO :
Dear Jamz,
His actions showed what type of person he is already. Don’t waste your time with jerks like this. I’m sure some people might advise you to report sexual harassment, but seeing your condition at the time, the cops will probably throw the case out of the window. Fuck that. If you want to give him the benefit of your doubt, I suggest the next time you meet him, let it be at a place that he is unfamiliar with. This way, he is less likely to act foolish and keep his manners in check.
Take your time. Get to know each other. Resist your peer pressure. Do not succumb to the callings of the flesh however lustful you are. If you really are horny, we at Chilakak.com will gladly assist in providing you some relief.
Jokes aside, be who you are and what your parents raise you to be. Use your common sense and you’ll most likely to avoid the heartaches. Be patient, your prince will come. Good luck!
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